But you might have to do it yourself.

And if you didn’t get raised the right way (whatever that means), then you absolutely have to do it yourself. You owe it to yourself (and to the rest of us). It’s true.
Start here. Understand it. Embrace it. You’re awesome. You always have been. Harness it.
Then, when you think you’re ready, go here. Read that. Underline stuff. Make notes in the margins.
More later.